{"id":9909,"date":"2016-08-02T16:03:14","date_gmt":"2016-08-02T14:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/?p=9909"},"modified":"2016-08-02T16:03:14","modified_gmt":"2016-08-02T14:03:14","slug":"cudesna-moc-reci-ne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.balance.rs\/en\/cudesna-moc-reci-ne\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010cudesna mo\u0107 re\u010di NE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Jo\u0161 od malih nogu roditelji nas vaspitavaju da budemo ljubazni, da treba starije slu\u0161ati, deca ne smeju da ka\u017eu: <em>NE, NE\u0106U, NE MOGU<\/em>. I danas kada ste odrasla, zrela osoba da li vam se de\u0161ava da pomislite da ste nepristojni ili sebi\u010dni kada ka\u017eete <em>NE<\/em>?\u00a0Naprotiv, to nije sebi\u010dno ve\u0107 jasno, iskreno i odgovorno.\u00a0\u010cudesna mo\u0107 re\u010di <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/kako-reci-ne\/\">NE<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Istra\u017eivanja pokazuju da je najte\u017ea re\u010d koju osoba treba da izgovori <em>NE<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Na\u0161i u\u010desnici \u010desto na treninzima imaju zadatak da\u00a0npr. odbiju promotere. To izgleda kao lak zadatak ali njima izgleda okrutno i nepristojno. Me\u0111utim, nakon ve\u017ebanja\u00a0u\u010desnici ovaj na\u010din komunikacje vide\u00a0iz potpuno novog ugla. Ovo mo\u017ee biti jasan izbor koji mo\u017ee biti afirmi\u0161u\u0107i na svoj na\u010din i ne mora da bude negativno uop\u0161te, zapravo bude osloba\u0111aju\u0107e.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pitate se kako \u0107e re\u010d <em>NE<\/em> promeniti va\u0161 \u017eivot\/ \u0160ta vam to\u00a0mo\u017ee doneti?<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>Kada na adekvatan na\u010din odbijete nekog vi\u00a0zapravo pokazujete da znate koje su va\u0161e <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/kako-reci-ne\/\">granice<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Osloba\u0111a vas pritiska da odmah donesete odluku.<em> O<\/em>mogu\u0107ava vam vi\u0161e vremena da razmislite o zahtevu.<\/li>\n<li>Obi\u010dno ne razmi\u0161ljamo od \u010dega smo odustali kada \u201eusko\u010dimo\u201c u <em>DA<\/em>&#8211; vreme sa porodicom, san, ve\u017ebanje, \u0161etnja. Razmislite \u0161ta biste ina\u010de sa tim slobodnim vremenom uradili.<\/li>\n<li><em>NE<\/em> kao afirmacija vas samih je i pokazatelj li\u010dne odgovornosti. Pokazuje da koliko god volimo, po\u0161tujemo i vredujemo odnose sa odre\u0111enim ljudima, svakako ne mo\u017eemo dozvoliti sebi da budemo pod njihovim uticajem.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">U kojim situacijama poma\u017ee ovaj vid <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/trening\/trening-komunikacije\/\">komunikacije<\/a>?<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li><strong>Kada neko \u017eeli ne\u0161to da vam proda:<\/strong> Treba da razumete da su prodavci obu\u010deni da prevazi\u0111u odbijanja. Ukoliko vas usluga\/proizvod ne zanima budite odlu\u010dni u svom stavu. Ne dugujete im ni\u0161ta.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kada vam je data mogu\u0107nost ali niste sigurni da li je prava prilika za vas:<\/strong> Mo\u017ee se desiti da ste nezainteresovani za odre\u0111ene prilike, ali svakako ne \u017eelite da se ta osoba oseti odba\u010deno. Mnogo puta se desi da <em>NE<\/em> po\u010dinje sa \u201ehvala\u201c. Na primer: \u201ePuno vam hvala, u ovom trenutku sam zauzet\/a, ali cenim \u0161to ste se mene setili.\u201c<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kada vas neko pita za brzu uslugu:<\/strong> Jednostavno recite <em>NE<\/em>,<em> izvini<\/em>&#8230; Ne pravite od toga veliku stvar. Tokom vremena to \u0107e podsticati ljude da po\u0161tuju va\u0161e vreme. Svakako mo\u017eete kasnije kada razmislite re\u0107i da. Uvek dajte sebi vremena ukoliko niste sigurni u svoju odluku.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kada vas \u0161titi od zloupotrebe drugih: <\/strong>Sigurno vam je poznat primer dok ste bili na fakultetu ili primer sa posla sa kolegom koji redovno pozajmljuje va\u0161e bele\u0161ke. De\u0161ava se da ljudi \u010desto sebi daju za pravo da tra\u017ee usluge koje ni vi sami ne bi tra\u017eili. Va\u017eno je da u takvim situacijama ka\u017eete jasno i smireno <em>NE<\/em>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Evo par predloga kako re\u0107i NE:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>izbegavajte dvoumljenje<\/li>\n<li>recite brzo <em>NE<\/em><\/li>\n<li>objasnite ukratko za\u0161to nekog odbijate<\/li>\n<li>predlo\u017eite ne\u0161to drugo<\/li>\n<li>sastavite spisak kome treba da ka\u017eete <em>NE<\/em><\/li>\n<li>prioritet treba da budu ljudi koji su vam najva\u017eniji<\/li>\n<li>recite <em>NE<\/em> \u201eenergetskim vampirima\u201c.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Na kraju, ve\u017ebajte, ve\u017ebajte i ve\u017ebajte.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Istra\u017eivanja pokazuju da je najte\u017ea re\u010d koju osoba treba da izgovori je NE. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":9914,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[24,8,25],"class_list":["post-9909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-komunikacija","tag-asertivnost","tag-komunikacija","tag-ne","entry","has-media"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>\u010cudesna mo\u0107 re\u010di NE \u2022 Balance Consulting Kragujevac<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"\u010cudesna mo\u0107 re\u010di NE. 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