{"id":12002,"date":"2018-05-01T08:36:48","date_gmt":"2018-05-01T06:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/?p=12002"},"modified":"2018-05-01T08:36:48","modified_gmt":"2018-05-01T06:36:48","slug":"zamka-podrazumevanja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.balance.rs\/en\/zamka-podrazumevanja\/","title":{"rendered":"Zamka podrazumevanja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Koliko puta vam se desilo da ste upali u zamku podrazumevanja? Koliko \u010desto do\u0111e do <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/5-razloga-zasto-asertivno-komunicirati\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">konflikta<\/a> samo zato \u0161to smo smatrali da se drugoj osobi podrazumeva isto \u0161to i nama? Ako \u0107e vam biti lak\u0161e, niste jedini. \ud83d\ude42 Da, mogu sa sigurno\u0161\u0107u da tvrdim da smo se svi na\u0161li u pomenutoj zamci. Va\u017eno je osvestiti da svi imamo razli\u010dita uverenja, verovanja, na\u010dine funkcionisanja i bitno je nau\u010diti jednu lekciju, a to je da ono \u0161to je nama logi\u010dno, podrazumevano ne mora nu\u017eno biti i ostalima.<\/p>\n<p>Evo par primera iz prakse:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Kada se osoba na\u0111e na odre\u0111enom radnom mestu po prvi put, sve mu je novo, puno stvari je nepoznatno, me\u0111utim ne i osobi koja je tu ve\u0107 godinama i naravno da joj se ve\u0107ina stvari podrazumeva. U ovakvim situacijama va\u017eno je postavljati pitanja, upoznati osobu sa na\u010dinima funkcionisanja u firmi.<\/li>\n<li>Kada govorimo o partnerskim odnosima trudite se da budite \u0161to otvoreniji i ka\u017eite \u0161ta \u017eelite od svog partnera. Ne \u010dekajte da partner \u201c\u010dita\u201d va\u0161e misli jer vas zna najbolje. Verujte mi, smanji\u0107ete nesporazume a sa\u010duva\u0107ete energiju i vreme. \ud83d\ude42<\/li>\n<li>Roditelji, da li vam se desila situacija da se vra\u0107ate od prijatelja vidno ljuti jer se va\u0161a deca nisu pona\u0161ala kako ste o\u010dekivali? Da li pre nego \u0161to krenete kod prijatelja popri\u010date sa va\u0161om decom kako \u017eelite da se pona\u0161aju u gostima? Ili se podrazumeva da to znaju?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ovo su samo neki od svakodnevnih primera sa kojima se susre\u0107emo. Verujem da ste se setili jo\u0161 puno va\u0161ih situacija.<\/p>\n<p>Kada je u pitanju ova tema \u010desto ljude podse\u0107am da imamo dva <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/najava-otvorenih-treninga-u-balance-consulting-u\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">asertivna prava<\/a>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h2>Pravo da ne razumem, da mi nije jasno.<\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Mi nismo \u010dita\u010di tu\u0111ih misli. Zato nemojte da o\u010dekujete od sebe da unapred prepoznajete tu\u0111e \u017eelje, mi\u0161ljenje, o\u010dekivanja, da predvi\u0111ate tu\u0111e potrebe. Koriste\u0107i i brane\u0107i svoje pravo da ne razumemo, mi zapravo pozivamo drugu osobu na otvoren dijalog, na mogu\u0107nost da zajedno do\u0111emo do boljeg razumevanja. U suprotnom, ako sebi oduzimamo ovo pravo, ose\u0107amo se lo\u0161e i\u00a0 \u201cprozvani\u201d ukoliko je druga osoba besna, povre\u0111ena ili uznemirena.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h2>Pravo na sopstvenu logiku.<\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u201cLogika je jedan od spoljnih standarda koji mnogi ljudi koriste da bi sudili o mom, kao i o va\u0161em pona\u0161anju&#8230; <strong>kao dokaz da smo mi pogre\u0161ili<\/strong>\u201d (M. Smit).<\/p>\n<p>Istina je da mi nastupamo iz sopstvenog sistema uverenja, i da ono \u0161to je nama logi\u010dno ne mora biti i drugoj osobi (upis odre\u0111ene \u0161kole ili fakulteta, izbor partnera, raspolaganje sopstvenim vremenom ili jednostavno ukus). Na\u0161e je pravo da sami procenjujemo zna\u010daj i vrednost onog \u010demu te\u017eimo, preuzimaju\u0107i odgovornost za sopstvene izbore.<\/p>\n<p>Naravno, navedena prava va\u017ee u oba smera, to se podrazumeva. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Autor<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.balance.rs\/pocetna-nova\/konsultanti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jelena Maru\u0161i\u0107<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Koliko puta vam se desilo da ste upali u zamku podrazumevanja? Koliko \u010desto do\u0111e do konflikta samo zato \u0161to smo smatrali da se drugoj osobi podrazumeva isto \u0161to i nama? Ako \u0107e vam biti lak\u0161e, niste jedini. \ud83d\ude42 Da, mogu sa sigurno\u0161\u0107u da tvrdim da smo se svi na\u0161li u pomenutoj zamci. Va\u017eno je osvestiti [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":12003,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30,11,2,31,38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12002","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-coaching","category-komunikacija","category-nlp","category-stres","entry","has-media"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Zamka podrazumevanja - Balance Consulting<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Koliko puta vam se desilo da ste upali u zamku podrazumevanja? 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